I am new and found about this stuff only a little while ago, but a few years (I think I was around 17) I was kissing this girl (the local bike, everyone seemed to have a ride) and she said something along the lines of "I was once getting off* with this lad and he started getting a hard on... we weren't even doing anything else" I got the impression that this was in a negative tone.
As I kissed her, I started to get a hard on she felt it and (I presume to save me from embarrassment of the previous sentence) got her boobs out... it was nice. I hope you can see everyone's laughing with you. My first inclination was :lol: too. Most people who are laughing probably felt the same uncertainty as you did at one time, but now realize that this is just one of things in life that's very human and very natural and very common and very funny.
BTW probably obvious but since no-one explained it, the reason you get an erection is that blood rushes to your love wand. Your body does that to get you ready for intimacy, that can be a turn-on for her but you need to calibrate. I mean, it's hard to use push-pull and act like you're qualifying her when it's obvious your body is telling you to go for it.
I grinded with this chick SOOOO MUCH, and she was SOOO GOOD that after I woke up in drunken stupor the next day I found my underpants soaked in blood.... Pick up arts almost took another victim! The chafing is the worst! anyone else have that problem? Whenever I grind with a girl and we still have clothes on, it seems to happen. granted, if we just removed the clothes our problem would be solved, but anything else? Push pull even works when your dick is inside her. Maybe it's even when it works best. I'd have to think about it. HEHEHEH that's what I thought :lol: If mystery said that having sex should last 5 hours then you can go and have intimacy and don't worry about PE ! We are not trying to make fun of you but you must admit that what you said is really nonsense.
Odds are she has said this or something similar and liked the effects it had on people before. Especially saying it to a group of guys.... It's like slapping them all in the face! push/pull.... No matter how experienced, you be damn well sure she would be upset if a guys dick wasn't hard when she wanted it to be and it didn't get hard thereafter... although that 's a pretty rare!