Let her dictate the speed and force of the rub. Trust me if she wants more tension and for you to go harder she will beg you for it. The most important thing is that she is in a very relaxed and vulnerable state here, so make sure that you are gentle with her. If you go too hard she will tense up and it will be very hard to get her to relax again. Women experience orgasms more often through clitoris stimulation then just purely vaginal stimulation. If you can, work two fingers in and out of her vagina while using your other hand to stimulate the clit.
Remember to be gentle as the clitoris is very sensitive. Sometimes it is easier to use your mouth and tongue then your fingers. Keep your fingers going in and out of her vagina and slowly lick and suck on her clitoris. When I go down on my partner I like to use the "O" formation. I put my tongue on or around her clitoris and make an "O" movement with my tongue, going anti clockwise. Keep doing this for a while until you start hearing her getting louder and louder and getting rougher with the way she is touching you. This is the best time to start using the techniques I show you in the next few chapters to get her to ejaculate. The Importance of Clitoral Stimulation! The clitoris probably holds the key to your partner having a squirting orgasm . If her clitoris is not stimulated she’s less likely to become highly aroused. If she is not highly aroused her prostate may not fill with increased amounts of fluid. If her clitoris is not stimulated she is less likely to experience orgasm and the rhythmic contractions of the pelvic muscles that expel and release the ejaculate. So quite simply before you can go exploring for the G-Spot you must master clitoral stimulation beforehand. There are women who are orgasmic and ejaculate when their G-Spot or vagina alone is stimulated but the majority need direct clitoral stimulation if they are to experience orgasm. I came so much he was thoroughly drenched. His hair, face and chest were totally dripping according to www.cuisine-east.co.uk/?p=680