If he does, he has failed the test. If he passes, future tests will occur with diminishing frequency (but if he fails even once the frequency is turned back up). All women have developed the shit-test instinct and the higher the sexual mastery the more pressing a need a woman has to apply it. Again, while it may seem duplicitous, women are biologically hardwired to employ this and other tools of emotional manipulation and most do it subconsciously. Once made aware of her penchant for emotional manipulation, while it would be unwise for a woman to abandon such instincts in their entirety (even if she could, she would leave herself susceptible to poor judgment in men), she would benefit from meting out such trials judiciously, consciously and in moderation. Although attempts to camouflage the cynical, calculating and manipulative side of female nature prevail in pop culture and the press, men are increasingly privy to it and if you don’t keep a lid on it you’ll dissuade the uppermost echelon of males from continuing any dalliance they may have initiated with you. If you are a pretty woman, reducing your emotional manipulation to a bare minimum will raise your sexual mastery among the men in your vicinity who observe that, compared to other women of comparable pulchritude, you cause far fewer headaches and are the kind of low-conflict, drama-free girl they don’t usually see except among homely women (who can’t afford to be drama-queens). Learn why oral sex is better than fingering.