Did you ask if I meditate? Yes.Yes, I do. I’ve had a daily meditation practice now for about 25 years and I do that in the morning first thing, I get up, I pee, take a couple vitamins, and I have a shower because I like to not feel like I’m going to fall asleep again when I meditate. I have my shower and before I really start my day, like do emails, interact with the world, I come back to my bed and I sit and I meditate for 20 minutes. Yay! Thank you, appreciate it.You’re welcome. Thank you, Kim. I am so enjoying this course, I’m learning so much, it’s incredible. Thank you so much.I’m so glad to hear that, thank you for the feedback. You are so awesome, it’s just so inspiring. I wish I knew about this stuff 20 years ago, but it’s the right time now.Yeah, it’s the right time now, exactly. If I knew this stuff 20 years ago, I don’t think I could’ve—you know what I mean? It took me all these years to figure it out myself, I think. [Laughs] We’re all in the same boat.
My wife texted me, ‘Let’s get dirty before we shower,’ and left a crumb trail of sexy hints up to the bedroom last night. I’d say I wasn’t in a particular mood for sex, but wanted to give it to her so I started out by blindfolding and binding her hands, then caressing her inner thighs and brushing her labia. When I felt it was time to jump in, I couldn’t. I tried many times for several minutes to get up, but nothing would work. This is a first time experiencing impotence and although my erections are not always rock hard 100% of the time, I have never been incapable of getting an erection. She was very accepting of it and we talked about it together afterwards. I’ve been going through several lifestyle changes, working with a natural varicocele treatment and the treatment demands that I do less exercise, so now exercise is missing from my life. The treatment has also transformed my work habits and I’m now standing for eight hours a day instead of sitting for that time. I have a very seasonal career, this is a slow time at work so I can see how that would be coming from, but I’m not convinced. I suppose the diet from Thanksgiving could be an issue, but that’s a long shot, as it’s never been the cause of something like this before. My wife and I have talked many times and have opened up quite a bit, so there’s no emotional scarring left behind and there shouldn’t be any emotional blocks. I’ve never really had a strong sex drive, but I would love to have a raging one on average. What do you see in this pattern and how do you suggest I achieve a raging sex drive?Sometimes when the woman initiates guys may not be as responsive. I don’t know if there’s a typical pattern in your relationship, if you normally initiate and she doesn’t. I’ve seen it where some guys can get a little bit thrown off and not be quite as erect or into it from that perspective, so I’m not sure if that was part of it.